DATING~ MEN REVEALING INSIDE INFO.

Yesterday was intriging! I had quite a few women and men express to me how being single is frustrating. I could not help but hear the sadness as well as their desire for love in their voices. Unfortunately, many of them are not over their Ex's or working on their struggles. I do NOT bash men. I believe there are great men out there, I am blessed to know some! I also believe that women need to know their worth so they don't fall into the same pitfalls. When we work on our internal struggles and face them head on, thats when things in our relationships start changing for the better. Blaming him/her is not going to bring you peace or love. Carrying unforgiveness in your heart makes you one bitter woman or angry man. I am bringing you this information today hoping you see things in a different light. I believe we need to know who we are, as well as understand (as much as possible) about men. The information comes from male Christian relationship coaches who I believe to be honest & transparent and truly want women to get it. They see so many women attracting the wrong men, getting hurt, become wounded and jump into another relationship to soothe the pain. Don't get me wrong, I know men do this too! So here are (4)nuggets they share about their actions, and thinking in dating. Keep an open mind and realize men think differently than women.

NUGGETS~

1.) Realize you are not the only women he is pouring into (talking to).
      Men leave their options open.
2.) A man will SHOW you the truth and tell you a lie.
      Believe more of what you SEE less of what you hear.
3.) A man will want to share ALL aspects of his life.
      He will want to know ALL about yours as well.
4.) One thing every guy knows is that if there is no substance
      behind the sex, then there is no more desire to be in her presence.

Well, I hope you got a glimpse of how men operate. This is just a lil info. Men and women are so different which is awesome and at times frustrating. The way men and women view sex is obviously different. Since sex was created for the marriage bed it's no wonder it is the cause of such dysfuntion. It is out of covenant with God. When done correctly it is amazing!
So ladies, guard your hearts, only the man who seeks God and understands this should be able to unlock your heart. I pray you view this information as a positive reinforcement to stand tall! Keep your values in front of you, walk in confidence knowing how beautiful you are and you will attract the right mate. I am believing the best for all of you. Continue to learn and grow! Below are some scriptures to read and meditate on.
Love and Blessings, Trish.............W.O.W.

SCRIPTURES~


COMPROMISE
I am very, very careful never to compromise with the people around me and I do not follow their evil ways. (Exodus 34:12)

I possess the mystic secret of faith (Christian truth as hidden from ungodly man) with a clear conscience. (1Timothy 3:9)


HOLINESS
God has reconciled me by Christ's physical body through death to present me holy in His sight without blemish and free from accusation. (Colossians 1:22)

HOW DO YOU SEE YOURSELF?

How do you see yourself ? It truly does matter! How you see yourself starts in your mind. What do you think about yourself ? What we think will manifest in our lives. So, I'm hear to ask .....How do you see yourself? Do you see yourself as beautiful, victorious, lean & fit, successful, wealthy, happy, healthy, in love, serving others, living your DESTINY? Or do you see yourself as not that good looking, as a victim (nothing goes my way, I didn't have anyone there for me, I can't do this or that) needing to lose weight but don't try, barely getting by, I can't make that kind of money, sick, broken relationships, focused on self not giving back to others, going through the motions? Do you SEE the difference? Well, YOU can change this as of right NOW!! Start changing how you think of yourself and the allow the past to just stay there!! Don't get sucked into the circumstances in front of you, though challenging. Focus on your gift, purpose, Destiny Bound is where you are headed!! ;-) Start by SPEAKING a word over your negative self-talk. If you are thinking I am not good enough, it is imposssible to lose this weight, SAY: I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me! I am healthy , lean and fit. I am commited to a lifestyle of wellness!! Things will SHIFT! What we speak comes back to us....good or bad, choose to speak positive affirmation statements. It will help if you write some down on post it's and put on mirror's , fridge, car...ect!! So you SEE it then SAY it!! Please see that God creates Masterpieces, not garbage!! You have a MAGNIFICENT future....step into your new belief patterns and reap the rewards!! YOU are beautiful, healthy, victorious, wealthy, lovable and unselfish!! Be BOLD in your evaluation, DECLARE: (I exude beauty, dripping in the alluring fragrance I attract all my heart desires. Divine opportunites are awaitng me!) I pray you know how BEAUTIFUL you are, YOU MATTER, YOU are WORTY of this GREAT life RIGHT NOW!!! The world is awaiting your gift, we need YOU!! Love and Blessings, Trish.............W.O.W.